The use of Pick Up Listings in the context of online dating has made a lot of people sit up and think “wow, this is the way to go”. But I’d beg to differ, because I believe the vast majority of Pickup Artists (PUA’s) on the internet are nothing more than pathetic, desperate, spineless parasites.
They are so desperate to get some women that they will give up anything to get it. But why? Is there a way to make money using this tactic?
For one thing, if you think about it, the biggest problem with online Europe dating is that it’s all about you and your ego. This is the only reason people will join online dating sites, is because they don’t have someone to play the game (with them).
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They are completely self-absorbed and would much prefer to take care of the ‘game’ for themself, which means they’ll never be a good real estate agent, or a dating coach, or even a golf tutor.
This is not how the rest of us are built. Real estate agents and golf tutors expect their students to be good human beings who respect them and are sincerely looking for a life-long partner, not someone who is looking for free money.
I also think there’s a big difference between the way a real estate agent or a golf tutor would react to the strategy of staging Pick Up Listings. A real estate agent may call you up asking if you want to see a house he’s selling next door.
If you say yes, he’ll send you pictures of the house and then send you some press releases about how great the house is and so on. He will offer to set you up in the home with the potential buyers, and provide value added services like helping you reach out to the family.
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The problem with that is if you don’t like it, he can walk all over you, and you’ll never have a chance to say “no”. Or you may say “no” to his first offer, but he’s relentless, and you find yourself saying “yes” to him, every time. Then, when it’s time for you to say “no” politely, he has all the power.
You can call him names online, insult him, and be mean, but when it’s time for you to say “no”, he’s the one who has power. So you can imagine how that will work out for you and for the other people you signed up with online dating.
The only way for your business to create real value for you, is by having a clear plan for how you will act, communicate, and stage your online dating profiles and Pick Up Listings in UK.
Most dating coaches like myself advise that if you’re going to have any real success online, you need to make sure that you have an action plan for everything that you do. This includes how you are going to interact with others and using the social media systems to your advantage.
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It also includes what you’re going to do to create a good impression for yourself in the world of the online dating community. This is what will get you the most dates, and create the most value for your business.
The most powerful thing that you can do to create real value and results for your online dating business, is to have clarity about exactly what you want to achieve.
You should have a goal for how many new women you want to attract, and how fast you want to get to that number. Beyond that, you should have a very strong sense of what kind of woman you’re looking for.
Are you after a friend that is fun to be around, is a good listener, is easy going, honest, intelligent, and willing to be a part of the team? Or are you looking for a young sexy woman that wants to have lots of sexual encounters?
Once you have this goal established, you will be in a much better position to stage your Pick Up Listings and work to attract the kind of women you’re looking for.